For many people, pets are a part of the family. They would no sooner be left behind on vacation than one of the children.
But if you want to travel with your pet, whether by car or by plane, there are a few things I recommend you do to make sure your furry companion is comfortable and less stressed.
Traveling By Car
If you’re traveling by car, pack a pet carrier, whether a collapsible soft-sided or hard-sided model. Depending your pet’s size, the right carrier may not fit into your car, so make sure you test this out before purchasing one. You may not want to keep your pet in her carrier the entire trip, but if you do, there are a few things you need to remember.
- Keep your pet in the back seat. Air bags can cause serious injury in case of an accident.
- There are special “sky boxes” for small dogs, and I’ve seen seat belt harnesses for larger dogs. Cats should ride in enclosed carriers, however.
- Make several stops so your pet can have a bathroom break. They may be nervous about riding in a car, and may have to go more often than they do at home. Also, be sure to clean up after your animal. Don’t leave “anything” behind. Read more
When you travel with children, you long for the day that they’re old enough to have their own luggage and carry it or pull it behind them. When my kids were 4 or 5, we got them their own suitcase, complete with favorite cartoon character on it. It didn’t hold much, although we could fit a week’s worth of clothes into the tiny bag, and they could pull it behind them.
Now that they’re older, they’re responsible for packing their own suitcases when we travel. The only problem is, my 14-year-old son doesn’t want to be seen with a Thomas the Tank Engine suitcase anymore. Ditto for my daughters and their Hello Kitty bags.
When they were old enough, they wanted new suitcases to reflect their individuality and personal style. But as their father the travel writer, I got them bags that were functional and practical instead, without all the screened print designs. Here was my reasoning.
1. Your luggage will last for years. Your personal style will change.
I got my first suitcase when I was 27, and I carried it on flights for about 15 years. Then I got my first Travelpro bag and I was a convert. It was so much lighter and roomier. And because I took good care of it, I’m still carting it around with me.
How important is the family friendliness of an airline to you? For some family travelers, they see the plane as a means of getting from point A to point B. For others, vacation begins the moment they lock the front door, and flying is a part of the experience.
Either way, if you’ve only got a limited number of days to travel, there’s no reason to make even a few hours miserable. And as everyone knows, if
Mama the kids aren’t happy, then nobody’s happy.
Some airlines have figured this out. They’re working to be as family friendly and fun as possible, as a way to attract more vacationing families.
I saw a recent article on the Huffington Post about some family-friendly airlines around the world. They’re offering reduced child fares, children’s food menus, and even child-oriented entertainment, all geared toward infants, toddlers, and children under 12. Here are a few airlines to consider for your next family vacation.
I remember the first time I ever flew with any of my kids. We had just adopted our oldest daughter, Madison, at a year old, and were flying home from Bolivia with her. She had been such a good child during our month in Santa Cruz, so we assumed she would be fine on the airplane.
We may have overestimated her patience and goodwill just a little. Not too badly, but enough that we knew we needed to prepare next time.
I dodged that bullet when my wife, Toni, brought our second oldest daughter, Emma, home from Haiti five years later. She took that trip by herself, while I stayed home with Maddie.
But we had learned enough those times, so when Toni brought our son, Ben, back from Haiti two years later, his flight was about what you’d expect: some crying, some drama, but nothing she couldn’t handle. I, of course, stayed home to be with our girls, so I missed out on all the fun.